How Women Think

This guy pretty much nails it with how women think differently than men do. Just understanding these distinctions makes a tremendous difference.
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I’ve finally had a chance to review Vin DiCarlo’s Pandora’s Box.  This program focuses exclusively on understanding how women think. This stuff is powerful when used properly and really helps creating quick connections with women… and those hidden signals she sends will be more like flashing neon lights. There was a lot of hype surrounding this product, and I was anxious to crack it open to see if it lived up to the expectations.

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There was a lot excitement within the dating community as this was the first original, and provoking product to come out in a long time.  And it sold out in record time. This is the first and only product for the dating community that focused specifically on how women think. Given the focus of this blog, I had to take a look.

Pandora’s Box is designed to help you get inside the head of almost any woman you choose… and know exactly what she is thinking.  Most of the program is built around psychological studies of how women think.  Vin used the results of these studies, along with his own “infield research” to determine 8 different types of women. DiCarlo gives you a road map for quickly figuring out  a woman’s type.. then gives you a game plan for going after her.

Here are some of things he shows you:
•    You’ll learn to recognize the signals women are giving you.  Once you know their “type” you’ll realize that different women send different signals.
•    You’ll learn how to get her acting outside of her “normal” behavior.  Because you’ll understand her so well, you’ll be able to talk her into things she would normally not do.
•    You’ll have a deeper understanding of her… and she’ll pick up on it.  This will immediately separate you from the other guys in her life.

I feel obligated to say here, that there’s no weird hypnosis or psychological loopholes at play here. This program shows you how to identify different mindsets of women not get her in some trance.

Based on all the research Vin’s team has done on how women think…  He came up with 8 specific personality types.
1.    The Playette
2.    The Social Butterfly
3.    The Hopeful Romantic
4.    The Cinderella
5.    The Private Dancer
6.    The Seductress
7.    The Connoisseur
8.    The Modern Woman

In Pandora’s Box, Vin DiCarlo then walks you through each of the eight personality types.  He tells you how they are likely to act in specific situation.
Some of the situations he covers are:
•    Approaching the different types
•    The types of flirting they respond to
•    How to escalate with each type
•    How to forge a deeper connection with each type
•    How to read their body language
•    What kind of sex each type responds best to

Vic shows you how to figure out which type she is with only three questions.

This program really gives a broad overview of each type, touching on each of the different personality types and exactly what they respond to.
I currently have a girlfriend… but I gotta be honest, I shared this with a couple of my single friends and they haven’t stopped thanking me. This stuff is POWERFUL when used properly and really helps creating quick connections with women… and reading those hidden signals quicker.
Pandora’s Box provides you with the power to look inside a woman’s mind.  I’ll be honest it’s kinda scary at times.  As you begin to really understand why women make the decisions they do.
Pandora’s Box is definitely worth checking out, as it will give you with a much deeper understanding of women.  And women will pick up on this quick, they’ll literally feel it.  And the great part it, it doesn’t involve memorizing lines… it just involves getting in side her head and knowing exactly what she’ll respond to. Check it out.

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Alright, Ace… You got the woman to go out with you. That’s great! But now you’re out and  she seems uninterested – that chemistry just isn’t there. What do you do?

I’ll make it quick. Either she’s in the bathroom and about to come back, or you’re in the bathroom wondering what to do…

First question: Are YOU still interested in her?

No? Call it a night. Simple as that. Don’t waste your time with women you’re not into.   Time is the most valuable commodity – go spend it somewhere better.

Yes? Ok, here’s three things that will make a huge difference:

1) Body Language. Ok, here’s the big guns. When you sit down, lean back. Keep your shoulders back or angled to the side of her. Whatever you do, don’t lean forward towards her or nod your head too much.

Don’t smile too much. Too much smiling says “I’m the nice guy, I’m the friend.” Smiling when you laugh is fine – but don’t beam those bambi eyes at her. Huuuge attraction killer. Smirking is good.

Is she touching you? If she’s touching you, even casually or accidentally THAT’S GREAT NEWS. You have to reciprocate touch also. Let’s say she taps your arm during conversation. You have five minutes to touch her the same way back. If she brushes your shoulder, do the same. This way you’re speaking her language. And it builds attraction in women subconsciously.

2) Get funny.You’ve got to make her laugh. All research on what women find most attractive in a man, humor is at the top every single time. Have fun with her.

Keep the conversation and mood light and funny. Teasing her is fine, just keep it fun and playful. Deprecating sarcasm works well, as long as you do it with a smile.

Laughter is laughter, plain and simple. If you’re struggling to get the giggles, go straight into a story. Tell her about the funniest thing you saw last week (it could have been years ago). Get passionate and animated about the story and have fun with it.

That’ll help.

Mentally, keep repeating two thoughts:

• “I’m irresistible, she’s going to love me.”
• “My intention is to laugh and have a good time.”

Stop worrying and enjoy yourself. Decide right now, that for the rest of this date, you’re going to have fun. You’re going to laugh. If you have fun, she’ll have fun. If she gets uptight, just tell her, “it’s ok, I’m not going to bite or anything. I usually save that for the third date.”

So you’ve been flexing that charm and flirting like a mad-man with this gorgeous, dare I say angelic, creature. Things seem to be going well, but even with all your suave knowledge on female psychology, you’re still not 100% certain how women think. How do you tell if a girl likes you?

There is one super sneaky ninja question you can use to figure out where you stand in her eyes without begging the oh-so-desperate “do you like me?” Being direct is great in business, but that won’t work here.

Here it is: Ask her, “what would you say are your top three dominant, positive traits?

You’ll get three responses (or she didn’t pass the 2nd grade and it’s time to move on). This question automatically gets her to qualify herself for you. She’ll give you three different types of answers:

1. Emotional
2. Intellectual
3. Sexual

If all three answers are emotional, she has low-self esteem. You’ve got to make her feel sexy and desired.

If all three answers are sexual, she’s a tease. You need to build deep rapport to get past those barriers, which can be tough.

If all three answers are intellectual, she’s closed off. You need to build lots of attraction and be lighthearted before continuing.

Ideally, you want a mix of all three. Then you’re good to go.

How can you “make a girl like you?”  Just imagine a hoard of hot girls fighting over you. What guy wouldn’t want that? It’s hard-wired in our biology. Actually, it’s what drove me learn everything I know about how to get good with women, and create fulfilling and fun relationships (yes, great sex included). I’m going to share three ways you can start making women like you. It’s all about understanding how women think. When you apply that knowledge – absolute magic happens. For more info on how women think, click here.

I’m Jake Shmeltzer and for years I struggled with girls. I only had my first kiss at the end of high school. In college I joined a fraternity that loved great parties. It was a total nightmare: I was surrounded by gorgeous women – and totally paralyzed by them. I could hardly talk to them. I didn’t know why. And when I did muster up the courage to say something I would crash and burn. I had great friends who hooked up with these gorgeous radiant women. Only after I got out of school did anything begin to change. I started studying these guys called “Pick Up Artists” and found that amidst the egoism, the “I’m so awesome,” and the bullshit – there’s some great and effective information. So I tried their tactics, went to their programs, and found that a lot of it worked pretty damn well.

So how can you make girls like you? What do you have to do? Maybe you’re not the best looking guy out there (I’m certainly no GQ model, myself), what does it take?

Worry not. There is hope.  Girls are attracted to guys based more on their personality and their presence than on how they look.  So average guys or even below-average looking guys like yours truly have got a chance to get really good with women. Whether or not you do it is up to you.

You can’t really control your genetics, but here is what you can control and improve to make girls like you:

1. Make girls like you by building your self-confidence

Girls like confident men. A LOT. If there’s a checklist that all women have for a guy; confidence in definitely in the top three. By even making the effort to improve your confidence, you’re halfway there.  Confidence is quite easy to develop.  All you really need to do is get in the habit of doing things even though you’re afraid to do them.  Confidence is knowing that you’re in the right place all the time. It’s being comfortable in your skin and staying calm.

You’ll soon learn that you can easily handle whatever life throws at you. Your confidence will increase each day.

2. Make girls like you by getting some skills and sharing your passion

It turns out Napoleon Dynamite was right when he said “Girls only want boyfriends with skills.”  (however, you can probably ignore the part about nunchuck, bow hunting, and computer hacking skills – those probably won’t get you very far with girls unless it gets some serious cash-flow).  You need to start to develop some good skills to attract women. This is interesting though, it doesn’t really matter what the skill is. What matters is that you are passionate about it. There’s a deficit of passion and ambition among men in their twenties right now, so capitalize on their laziness by standing out in the crowd. Women are feeling creatures and they will feel your passion – that’s what matters more than the skill.

That being said here are some suggestions: cooking, dancing, learning a language (keep it sexy – avoid ugly languages. Yes you, German.) Go with something musical, or artistic skills.  These type of skills flick that weird “prince charming” switch that Disney movies installed in women when they were little. The main thing is to take this up because you sincerely want to – not just to get laid. The passion will make you stand out from all the other guys out there, and trust me women like guys that stand out from all the ordinary, boring guys who think they’e too cool to do anything other than watch sports and drink beer.

3. Make girls like you by flirting with them

Knowing how to flirt with a girl is vital when you’re first getting to know them. This is how you avoid that dreaded “friend zone:” by starting the relationship with that flirty edge to it. Flirt with as many girls as you can so you get lots of practice and lots of girls liking you.

Remember that flirting is a very delicate art. (We have a whole other article on it). It only counts as flirting if it is 1.) not overly serious, and 2.) makes her feel better about herself.

The whole “make-fun-of-her-so-she-likes-me” thing stopped working in high school. Actually any woman worth pursuing will not respond well to that kind of treatment. You’re just another asshole. Now, if you want a woman with tons of baggage and who doesn’t like herself – then by all means keep trying that technique.

A lot of guys get this wrong and think that flirting is the same as hollering at a girl and telling her that she has a nice butt.  Don’t do this, it doesn’t work.

It fails both requirements for flirting.  1.) Chances are that without getting to know her first, she’s not going to know whether or not you’re being serious. And 2.) it doesn’t make her feel good about herself, it makes her feel like an object. Girls think one thing when this happens: Creepy Guy.

Keep these three things in mind and you’ll make girls like you everywhere you go before you know it.  It really all does boil down to your personality, your confidence, your presence.

To make this all run like clockwork, you must understand how women think. Click here to learn how women think.

For us guys, sex is so hardwired that we hardly ever ask the question “why?” Uuuuum, it feels good, it’s how we reproduce, it’s fun, and on and on.

This whole site is dedicated to understanding how women think, so you can reduce frustration, end loneliness, and have brilliant success with women. Here’s the absolute best information I’ve ever found on this subject. Click here to learn.

Here we’ll cover three things: 1) What motivates her to have sex. 2) What drives women to not just say ‘yes,’ but crave it with you. 3) What can you do to create that?

Remember, the fundamental difference between how women think from men is they are emotional creatures and they have diffuse awareness. So here’s some obvious reasons – you don’t need them all, but the more the better:

1) Your physical appearance turns her on. (Not critical, but it helps).

2) She’s attracted to you.

3) She wants to feel emotionally close or connected.

4) She wants to please you.

5) She’s caught up in the heat of the moment.

6) She realizes she’s in love with you.

7) She wants to express her love or affection.

8 ) She wants to experience pleasure

9) It seems like the natural next step in the relationship.

So those are mostly “duh factors” and things you can’t do a whole lot about. It just helps to understand them. If you’ve been playing your cards right and following the other ideas on this blog – you’ve done you best on these.

Here are some things you have more influence over, that might not be so obvious:

1) You’re a good kisser: Keep it on the softer side, a little moisture, not too much tongue.

2) You caress her: Slow sensual touch on the arms. Tons of nerve endings there. Will lead to more exciting places – but take it slower than you think.

3) You make her feel sexy: Meaningful compliments – but not too many.

4) She’s in a romantic setting: I’m a fan of what I call “planned spontaneity.” Random weekend trips to the beach are the best.

5) She thinks it’s fun: You’ve got to be funny. Humor is a huge turn on for girls.

6) She needs release or feels horny: Plan a horror movie marathon. The safe fear with a special person creates tension and excitement that’s got to go somewhere.

To do this you have to understand how women think. Here’s the absolute best information I’ve ever found on this subject. Click here to learn.

You’re out for lunch, waiting for the crosswalk to change. You glance across the street and something catches your eye – excuse me: someone catches your eye. A gorgeous brunette in a sundress at the cafe with her girlfriends. They’re laughing, cooing about something. Pointing, but careful not to get caught. An average looking guy in khakis strolls by them. Yet these ladies are eating it up!? “What the hell does that guy have that I don’t?” you think. “Is it the way he dresses? His looks? The way he walks? Money? Does he say something right?” I know I’ve thought that myself. It sucks. And that kind of thinking can turn into an endless cycle.

What do women find attractive in men? What do you need to do to be the subject of their desire?

To do this you have to understand how women think. Here’s the absolute best information I’ve ever found on this subject. Click here to learn.

Common knowledge is that women only like guys that are rich, jerks, men in uniform, tall, good-looking, famous, young, or any combination of these qualities.

In reality, what women find attractive is far deeper than these surface-level traits.  Women may THINK that they need a guy to have these qualities, but really it’s not the qualities that they find attractive, it’s what these qualities represent.

This should be great news for you if, like me, you’re not a twenty-five year old, six foot six, millionaire, cocky, police officer, fashion model, that’s famous with nine inches hanging between his legs.

The reason that women tend to gravitate toward these types of men is these types of guys provide the woman a sense of security.

That’s right.  Security.

Think about it.  Imagine thousands of years ago in caveman times.  Women wanted to ensure that their children would survive to maturity and live to reproduce.  The best way to do that is to land a man that can keep her safe and provide for her.

Rich guys have lots of money that can afford things for her.  Jerks will beat up anyone at the drop of a hat.  Men in uniform also represent this ass-kicking, guardian quality for women.  Tall guys give the impression that they can dominate other men because of their physical size.  Good-looking men have good genetics.  If her children have good genetics too, then they will have an easy time reproducing. The species moves on. Famous guys give the illusion that they are leaders and can command others.  Young men represent health and strength.

So you see, what women find attractive is not these superficial, surface level traits.  It’s a feeling of comfort and safety that they find attractive.  Now that’s not to say that they like boring and predictable guys.  That’s different.  They like guys that are fun, exciting, and unpredictable on a day-to-day basis, but guys that they know can provide security and safety in the long-run.

So what can you do? Well personally, I’m a huge advocate for everyone getting rich – but I’m not here to talk about that. The next best thing is ambition. You’ve got to have a sincere and passionate desire for more life. That’s why you’re reading this right? You want more success with women. You want more life. When you share your dreams and your ambition, and you actually make an effort to make those happen – you’ll create that sense of security for women. Bingo!

When women say that they want a “real man” what they mean is that they want a guy that can provide security for them (physical and emotional), but also a guy that is confident and comfortable enough with himself to take things lightly and have fun from time to time.  That’s what women find attractive.

To do this you have to understand how women think. Here’s the absolute best information I’ve ever found on this subject. Click here to learn.

Information on How Women Think coming soon!